Craving for a Conversation

Do you crave for a conversation?


Well. I might have to define it, first, before you fall into a false notion of grouping those unwanted small talks or fancy gossips and renaming them as conversation. No! They strictly are not allowed entry into this elite galaxy of deep and meaningful exchange of ideas about anything between two souls, irrespective of the multitudes of discrimination, man has invented upon himself.

If you do crave, you can go ahead. If not, this is strictly not for you; Nevertheless, you can step in to keep yourself aware of the magic that can unfurl your wings into the unknown realms of cloud nine.




Conversation, forms the basis of any relationship between any two. They are almost directly proportional to each other in mathematical terms. We are all looking for endless possibilities and probabilities, as the world's population clocks 7 billion, which is humongous. But the entire prospect of the game is limited by the closed space of region, mainly. Then, there are limitless obstacles, which comes in our way(namely, age, gender, caste, religion, literary status, socio-economic status,profession) to strike up a candid conversation.

Sometimes, you astonish yourselves by discovering a like-minded soul at unlikely places . Some persist. Some perish. The seasons change. The wind blows. The water flows. The emotions change. The longings intensify. The solitude grips in. The Loneliness mounts. And that's exactly, when you start to desire something.
A compatible soul, to share your opinions honestly without putting on a mask; to unleash your creativity, mercilessly; to talk about your wildest passions, ambitions, fluently; to unravel your darkest secrets, uninhibitedly;  to show your painful scars that almost bled you to death; to show who you are from the inside.


I think very few are lucky to be with such people in their real lives. That's where the virtual universe(conversation) comes in and saves you from drowning in your reality. But this is not an alter-reality or a parallel universe. This too is real, however, surreal it might feel like.

It soon escalates to an intimacy on a different dimension. Its an addiction, you don't realize initially. And when you do realize, the water is well above your heads, checking your pulse and breath.It then, reaches a level, such that, its absence can provoke severe withdrawal effects. Even a five minute(meaningful) conversation per day can go a long way in keeping you sane and a lot happier and content, throughout the day.
Such is the power of a deep connection or a conversation about your passions, curiosities, philosophies and abstract ideas.



Some conversations can transcend time, space and boundaries. What can be more erotic than those types of conversations, that flows like a stream, spontaneously and poetically; the sarcastic remarks that stands out; the wits and laughter that makes counting your teeth, easier; the compatibility that enriches your souls and magnifies your worthiness.

Some conversations are symbiotic in nature. You both feed on yourselves and grow together beautifully, that even missing a sleep for it, would be so purposeful and the time spent on re-reading or replaying it in your minds can evoke an avalanche of feel-good memories.

This craving for conversation can hit you at any phase of our life. Age is never a criteria for this. But your state of mind is, definitely! Because, the soul sees and has no age.
Some of the common states of mind, which leads you to this craving are a general feeling of unworthiness; Being misunderstood and feeling lonely in a group;a sense of  incompatibility in workplace or in a relationship; Beware, these are "dangerous" places to look into fishing for a conversation. Because, you never know what kind of catch, you might end up with. 


Because the right conversation with the right kind of people can unearth a scarce and unique soul from this mundane alloy of the universe. It can strip away the layers and layers of insecurities, you wrapped around yourselves, subconsciously. It can blow down the walls, you built around yourselves, for your defense mechanisms. Alas, it leaves behind a naked soul.





So tell me about yourselves!


Because, a lot can happen over a conversation..




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